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Negatives of dating

Of course, it doesn’t work for all girls but the fact stays the same – the majority of Ukrainians earn less than any other European citizen.

Even if you take your girlfriend to fancy restaurants or order takeaway pizza every evening there will be times when she will desperately need a proper Ukrainian soup or cutlets.

Generally Ukrainians don’t like frozen or pre-cooked meals so they don’t mind spending quite some time in the kitchen for the reward of a nice meal afterwards. It take so long to make one soup that it is not worth the time to do it every day.

But remember that her not being able to express her thoughts properly and struggling to find the right words quickly may irritate your girlfriend even more. Can you imagine how annoying it might be to not understand the conversation at the dinner table?

Well imagine girls giggling to each other and saying your name from time to time and you still can’t understand them!

You shouldn’t find it rude, it is just a cultural thing.

She doesn’t try to use you (I hope), but it is common practice in Ukraine – boys pay in restaurants, for taxis, for any other entertainment.

The solution: Just expect it, practice safety and take it for what it is.

I have this problem whenever I try to buy a nice cheese. If there were three choices, I’d be like, cool, I found cheese. Practice the idea that you’re just meeting people to know if they qualify for second place, not for life partner status. The solution: Check the options on the service you’re using.

If you have ever learnt a foreign language you may have noticed how much more difficult it becomes to speak it when you are emotional or very tired. For the majority of international couples it’s the girl who follows the man, that’s why I assume you will leave abroad, not in Ukraine, therefore in your everyday life you will be speaking the language of the man rather than the Ukrainian language.

That’s why during those unfortunate moments whilst arguing you will have a huge advantage, you will be able to say quickly and clearly what you want.

On the one hand, you hear horror stories of psychos and unsolicited d*** pics, and on the other hand, you personally know several couples who have met and married over the thing. You’re never reminded of the fallibility of human kind as you are when you are online dating. And don’t put stock into anything or anyone until you’ve met. The paradox of choice teaches us that the more options we have, the unhappier we are and the more paralyzed we become to choose. Sure there are lots of people online and the grass can always feel greener for another date.